Stop being an arrogant bastard, and open your eyes. It BLOWS MY MIND how many smart guys I meet that just don't GET IT when it comes to basic social skills. They come up with all the reasons why everything WON'T WORK when it comes to women and dating.It's as if they have logically reasoned that social skills are for lower beings who need to play games... They actually figure out why what they would like to do will probably fail...There's something about being smart that makes some guys unwilling to accept input, ideas, or instruction from anyone who isn't either as smart or smarter than them. and if you don't have good social skills, you dramatically lower your chances for success with women.Well, any SMART GUY can see the folly in this particular approach... If you've been making this mistake, then you need to STOP IT. and let them teach you how to get what you REALLY want. Smart guys do something that fascinates the hell out of me...There's no quick "I'm right" around the next corner to make you feel better. Accepting that you're wrong is a VERY hard thing for a "smart guy".It only takes "failing" with a few women in a row for a smart guy to see the pattern... Accepting that you're not only wrong, but you have NO CLUE WHERE TO EVEN START is even more difficult.
On the other hand, if you start talking to a woman and you say "OK, so tell me something...(OR they let the "problem situation" destroy them...more on that later.) Well, the BITCH about being wrong when it comes to women and dating is THERE'S NOWHERE TO RUN AND HIDE. A smart guy just assumes that his logic must be good... But when no success comes, it really starts to become mentally difficult.After contemplating this particular paradox, discussing it, and working on it for an awesome amount of time, I'd like to share my thoughts about it with you.
I assume that if you've read this far, then you probably see yourself as smarter than the average guy.
Why is it that all women say that they want sweet, nice guys... " (and then make fun of any answer she gives) you're having an EMOTIONAL conversation.